Here’s how it is, sweetie:
We are no longer in a relationship, but I still love Tyler, with all my heart, and he still loves me. Even though we’ve broken up, we still express our love for one another to each other, as lovers naturally do. We didn’t and won’t suddenly start hiding our already well-known feelings simply because we aren’t an official couple right now. We both know quite well that our love still lives on; you don’t have to be in a relationship to be in love with somebody.
I suppose you could call us best friends with benefits. Though we still tell the other that we love them, still refer to one another affectionately, still hold hands/kiss/act like lovers, we’re using the break that we’re on to polish our friendship some more. As I said, we’re still best friends, just… best friends in love, it’d seem.
So… we’re both single, but we’re still best friends, but we’re in love.
If either one of us starts to date somebody else, we’ll STILL be best friends. That won’t change. If he starts to date another girl during our break, I’ll still love him, even if him dating someone else means I’ll have to keep my distance and limit myself to “just the best friend that loves him” status, and I’ll support him, comfort him, and help him to the best of my ability, like a good best friend should… and vice versa.
So, again: We’re both single right now, but we’re still super-close best friends, just in love.
Tyler and I broke up, honey. Thing is, we aren’t “officially together,” but we still love each other very much, and we’re still super-close best friends. We’re just going to use this break we’re on to polish our friendship more, give ourselves some space to grow before we try pursuing another relationship with each other again.
Hope that makes sense.
No.
I want to be around people that actually care about me the way I care about them.
I’m happier around people that actually love me.
Don’t tell me to smile.
My face will react to circumstances accordingly.
Mmhm.
One: You’re anonymous.
Two: You don’t ask for followers. You earn them.
I’M SORRY I’VE BEEN FUCKING STRESSED AND ACTUALLY HAVE A LIFE TO DEAL WITH YOU FAGGERT.
College of Southern Nevada. :]
I’M NOT
I LOVE HIM I LOVE HIM I LOVE HIM AND I WANT HIM AND I DON’T CARE IF ANYONE HAS A PROBLEM WITH IT BECAUSE IT’S MY HEART AND MY FEELINGS AND THIS FEELS RIGHT EVERYWHERE IN MY BODY AND I LOVE THAT BOY I LOVE HIM TO DEATH
AND I
DON’T
CARE
WHO
KNOWS
IT
ANYMORE
Duh.
I don’t have a certain “kind” of clothes that I like to wear. I wear whatever I like.
One word to describe my wardrobe would be “variety.”
*Boyfriends
*self-esteem.
Help? Yes.
Be the main reason? They shouldn’t.
If you make your boyfriend OR girlfriend the main reason why you have a high[er] self-esteem, you’re going to feel like shit about yourself more often than feel good about yourself.
Trust me. It’s happened.
Are you receiving your education from fashion models or your stereotypical sensitive mother?
There are ways to be honest with people, INCLUDING my boyfriend—which is an entire word and not made up of two consonants, by the way—in ways that do not involve being ridiculously blunt and hurting their feelings.
I’m intelligent and an artist. If my boy tried something new on and wanted me to evaluate the way he looked in it, I would tell him nicely, with descriptive reasons as to why what he is wearing may or may not be appealing on him. I wouldn’t simply say, “No” and then back up my answer with, “Just doesn’t” or “Because.” I’m a bit more reasonable than that, thank you very much.
Also: If you have to ask your boyfriend if something looks good on you or not, you must not have a very good self-image, and if your self-esteem is just as bad as that self-image you’re going to be very hurt very easily when he finally gathers up the testicular fortitude to tell you that he thinks something you’re wearing looks like shit on you.
